I'm getting married in four days

Here's a helpful quote as I enter into this covenant:

“We must deal with the fact that marriage means marriage of a sinnerto a sinner . . . in order to deal with sin rightly, we have to understand forgiveness, and anyone who wants to be married in this fallen world without understanding forgiveness is frankly out of his mind”. 

(For a Glory and a Covering, p. 93)

-Doug Wilson

(Thanks to Rod May for sending this my way)

Pleasure Thru a Demon's Eyes

http://www.desiringgod.org/blog/posts/seeing-pleasure-through-a-demon-s-eyes

This is perhaps one of my most favorite references and most helpful teachings on understanding pleasure and this world rightly.